I am a year and a half out of a relationship and in that time, I have found only one guy I was interested in but he did the vanishing act.I have probably more dates than the average woman and I just can’t seem to find a guy I want to date.
I am in my mid-forties and I have been online dating off and on for about 2½ years and dating in general for 4 years.In my “Love Essentially” column, published today in Sun-Times Media, I offer dating tips by way of wishing I could travel back to the year 1987 when I was 21 years old and give them to me! 21 Tips I Wish I could Have Shared With My 21 Year-Old Self Ever wish you could travel back to the past, say when you were about 21 years old, walk up to yourself and give you some really, really good, smart advice? If that was possible, think about how many less mistakes you’d have made, how much better some of your life decisions would have been, and for the purposes of this column, how much happier you’d have been in your romantic relationships. If 22 year old tells you some random guy flirted with her today, say you hoped she number closed him because she needs a shopping boyfriend.I was having breakfast the other day with a friend who was giving dating advice to his son.You can date someone as young as half your age plus seven years? It's no wonder that so many women feel that men their own age are too immature.